*MisSarah* Posted October 20, 2004 Author Share Posted October 20, 2004 We are few and far between. When the norm is a guy that treats women as objects instead of treating them right, the women get freaked out when a real man does. I guess they think it's too good to be true, or the nice guy really has hidden intentions but the bad guy is upfront about it. I don't know. I keep hearing that you have to keep women on their toes, keep them guessing, and never let them in on how much you like them. But I'd like to believe that it's all highschool mentality. At this point in our lives (the 20-somethings and up) we should be more adult about our relationships. But unfortunately, I think the games last for as long as we do. Let's see what the women have to say. Sorry I did it again. Go ahead MisSarah... NO DANTE you have very good advicE!!! I COULDNT AGREE MORE!!! people are such whinner like we act like we cant change our bad habits and our "high school mentality"! if games didnt exsist then things would be so much easier!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Benz Posted October 20, 2004 Share Posted October 20, 2004 Exactly. I see it just as you do. Again if I were to date, I wouldn't make the same "nice guy" screw ups I made in the past. Wow you're good! Yeah, being a nice person is one thing, but you have to learn to be... not rude, but assertive. And yeah, unfortunately we all have to learn by experience, and the experience can be painful. But after it all I look back and say "Whether I'm meant for Priesthood or Marriage, I learned some valueable lessons from that." See? The myth that nice guys always finish last has been debunked! You can be a nice guy, but you gotta be assertive too! There's a difference between being nice and being a doormat. You're not a nice guy if you're a doormat. Also something my Pastor at the parish said a few weeks back on men and women I beleive generally applies here: "Men and women have one question they need answered in life, it's a different question for each, but similar. For men its : 'Do I have what it takes? Am I a man?' and for Women it's : 'Am I lovely? Am I worth fighting for?' " Wise words. If you're a doormat, you're not a man, and you're sending the message to the woman that "No, people can walk all over me, I'm not gonna fight for you." Thoughts? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
*MisSarah* Posted October 20, 2004 Author Share Posted October 20, 2004 "Men and women have one question they need answered in life, it's a different question for each, but similar. For men its : 'Do I have what it takes? Am I a man?' and for Women it's : 'Am I lovely? Am I worth fighting for?' " if only everyone beleived they were worth fighting for! if only everyone valued themselves, what a world this would be!!!! so many of us think we should just settle or we dont deserve the best, and so many of us just let ourselves get walked over time and time again! i have fallen into this category many of times, its almost eaiser to excpect less than actully have respect enough for ourselves and others! it takes more then a vagina to be WOMAN and it takes more than penis to be a MAN!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Benz Posted October 20, 2004 Share Posted October 20, 2004 if only everyone beleived they were worth fighting for! if only everyone valued themselves, what a world this would be!!!!so many of us think we should just settle or we dont deserve the best, and so many of us just let ourselves get walked over time and time again! i have fallen into this category many of times, its almost eaiser to excpect less than actully have respect enough for ourselves and others! it takes more then a vagina to be WOMAN and it takes more than penis to be a MAN!!! AMEN, dear sister! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RobitussinEF Posted October 21, 2004 Share Posted October 21, 2004 oh geeze. after reading all of this i never want to date again! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
*MisSarah* Posted October 21, 2004 Author Share Posted October 21, 2004 to late for that my dear!!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stinkoman Posted October 21, 2004 Share Posted October 21, 2004 Dating is like a battle. Only one person can be the winner! I don't have time for dating, but if I did I'm always the winner. I tell the girl, "look at my double deuces" and they give up. Ha Ha! //flies away\\ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RobitussinEF Posted October 21, 2004 Share Posted October 21, 2004 have u thought up a theme for the babies room yet? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
*MisSarah* Posted October 21, 2004 Author Share Posted October 21, 2004 well i registered at target and i just picked girly looking things...i cant decide on one theme! imma just make it purty... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RobitussinEF Posted October 21, 2004 Share Posted October 21, 2004 well i registered at target and i just picked girly looking things...i cant decide on one theme! imma just make it purty... that's cool then! i gotta get that list now! hehe Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KaraSwims Posted October 21, 2004 Share Posted October 21, 2004 Aww! They have so many cute baby things at Target..what kinds of colors are you using? Congratulations!:-) A lil girl!! YEAHHHH! Kara Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
*MisSarah* Posted October 21, 2004 Author Share Posted October 21, 2004 yah!!! kara posted on my thread!!! haha im using pink and soft pastels..im not gonna make it tacky though!!! we gotta give miss Solara style at an early age!! haha ps..when i come to miami i wanna meet you and adam!!! and you can meet the baby too!!! yah!!!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
*MisSarah* Posted October 27, 2004 Author Share Posted October 27, 2004 gumby is shy!!!! but his girl friend is here!!! ask her a question! NOW! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dante Posted October 28, 2004 Share Posted October 28, 2004 *freaks out* Uhm....uhh...what is the average flight speed of an unlaiden swallow? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
La Lindsay Posted October 28, 2004 Share Posted October 28, 2004 hmmmm... I always thought gumby had a thing going on with pokey. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RobitussinEF Posted October 28, 2004 Share Posted October 28, 2004 just cause Pokeys name is pokey doesnt mean that gumby be pokin gumby! the yellow dinosaur dinky did! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dante Posted October 28, 2004 Share Posted October 28, 2004 I thought he had something going on with the blockheads and they are chasing him around for more sweet sweet love makin'. Pokey and all. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
*MisSarah* Posted October 28, 2004 Author Share Posted October 28, 2004 *freaks out* Uhm....uhh...what is the average flight speed of an unlaiden swallow? uhhhh......5mph?! i dunno,im not smart dante! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
*MisSarah* Posted October 28, 2004 Author Share Posted October 28, 2004 hmmmm... I always thought gumby had a thing going on with pokey. gumby is a ho!!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
*MisSarah* Posted October 28, 2004 Author Share Posted October 28, 2004 just cause Pokeys name is pokey doesnt mean that gumby be pokin gumby! the yellow dinosaur dinky did! yes tis true erika! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
*MisSarah* Posted October 28, 2004 Author Share Posted October 28, 2004 I thought he had something going on with the blockheads and they are chasing him around for more sweet sweet love makin'. Pokey and all. nothing like some sweet block head lovin!!! (btw i need then in my collection!!!) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
*MisSarah* Posted November 4, 2004 Author Share Posted November 4, 2004 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Reverend Jax Posted November 4, 2004 Share Posted November 4, 2004 I'm sorry Sarah. I didn't mean to hurt your feelings. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
*MisSarah* Posted November 4, 2004 Author Share Posted November 4, 2004 its ok its ok ill just let my tears wash away the pain! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Reverend Jax Posted November 4, 2004 Share Posted November 4, 2004 I'v been trying that with the election results. It hasn't worked. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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